My Heart is Riding Shotgun
A blog about grief, love and living.

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You were out of my league
You were out of my league
Mar 8, 2025
Because you are reading this, you already know that I believe in signs -that I am open to them, I am observant of them, and I receive them.
Because you are reading this, you already know that I believe in signs -that I am open to them, I am observant of them, and I receive them.

It's only a car
It's only a car
Feb 9, 2025
Grief changes over time. It becomes different. I believe you will hear this from most people who have been mourning a significant loss. Even still, it doesn’t really go away.
Grief changes over time. It becomes different. I believe you will hear this from most people who have been mourning a significant loss. Even still, it doesn’t really go away.

There are endless ways to receive her rewards
There are endless ways to receive her rewards
Jan 11, 2025
I say it a lot, and I feel it even more. Nature heals.In 2024, I went on 88 hikes, thirty-seven of which were on trails new to me.
I say it a lot, and I feel it even more. Nature heals.In 2024, I went on 88 hikes, thirty-seven of which were on trails new to me.

A sandwich of strangers
A sandwich of strangers
Dec 14, 2024
I’m an introvert and typically get most energized by my solo time. Generally, I’m an observer of others.
I’m an introvert and typically get most energized by my solo time. Generally, I’m an observer of others.

One more ride
One more ride
Nov 23, 2024
My mom, Sharon, passed away on November 24, 2023. This is the same date, November 24, on which her own mother died 57 years earlier.
My mom, Sharon, passed away on November 24, 2023. This is the same date, November 24, on which her own mother died 57 years earlier.

Being and Doing
Being and Doing
Sep 14, 2024
Do we always have choices? I think so. And I hope so. We may not always like the ones that are available. Sometimes, of course, we may feel limited.
Do we always have choices? I think so. And I hope so. We may not always like the ones that are available. Sometimes, of course, we may feel limited.

Oranges
Oranges
Aug 17, 2024
There are all kinds of changes that can occur in our habits and abilities when experiencing the loss of someone we love. Grief can take over in unanticipated ways.
There are all kinds of changes that can occur in our habits and abilities when experiencing the loss of someone we love. Grief can take over in unanticipated ways.

Truths worth repeating
Truths worth repeating
Jul 20, 2024
I have been writing regularly for over four years and have published 89 blogs on My Heart is Riding Shotgun. Most of them are timeless.
I have been writing regularly for over four years and have published 89 blogs on My Heart is Riding Shotgun. Most of them are timeless.

I'm actually okay with it
I'm actually okay with it
Jun 22, 2024
I can be pretty stubborn. I’m a Taurus. A Bull. I like to think I’m more stubborn with myself than with others. My friends and family may say otherwise.
I can be pretty stubborn. I’m a Taurus. A Bull. I like to think I’m more stubborn with myself than with others. My friends and family may say otherwise.

This new math is hard
This new math is hard
May 21, 2024
Math, or anything closely related, was never an enjoyable subject for me. I was lucky though. I had one of my favorite teachers in high school for Algebra 1 and 2.
Math, or anything closely related, was never an enjoyable subject for me. I was lucky though. I had one of my favorite teachers in high school for Algebra 1 and 2.

An Unremarkable Story
An Unremarkable Story
Apr 25, 2024
Tim and I were in Sedonna for a few days to ring in 2013. This was a place we visited quite often. On this occasion, it was colder than we had planned for and in fact, it snowed.
Tim and I were in Sedonna for a few days to ring in 2013. This was a place we visited quite often. On this occasion, it was colder than we had planned for and in fact, it snowed.

The other side of the bridge
The other side of the bridge
Mar 29, 2024
Did anyone notice this blog is posted two weeks later than my usual schedule? Thank you to the three people who checked in with me about it.
Did anyone notice this blog is posted two weeks later than my usual schedule? Thank you to the three people who checked in with me about it.
About the Author
Hi, I’'m Yve!
I am an end-of-life-doula, a grief educator, a business professional, a yoga teacher, a writer, a nature lover, and a widow. Phew!
In 2019 I was shaken by a life event that has given me a precious opportunity to see and accept my truth — I am exactly where I’m supposed to be — and I'm not alone! With my knowledge and experience, I aim to support others in their journeys.



Contact
I'd be honored to help you on your journey.
Prefer email? Reach me at info@loveyoumoredoula.com.




