My Heart is Riding Shotgun
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It's now full
It's now full
Jan 9, 2021
I have 15 journals. I love to shop for them. Scan the physical shelves. Pick them up. Flip the pages. Assess the type of paper. I love to receive them as gifts. And I have never filled one.
I have 15 journals. I love to shop for them. Scan the physical shelves. Pick them up. Flip the pages. Assess the type of paper. I love to receive them as gifts. And I have never filled one.

No Such Thing
No Such Thing
Dec 26, 2020
My friend Chuck says there is no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothes. I think he learned this sage wisdom from his father. The first time I heard it, I said, I like that!
My friend Chuck says there is no such thing as bad weather, only bad clothes. I think he learned this sage wisdom from his father. The first time I heard it, I said, I like that!

Finding My More
Finding My More
Dec 12, 2020
You find a partner, you figure out how to support one another, and you shift and modify to make it together. It’s a fairly standard part of life.
You find a partner, you figure out how to support one another, and you shift and modify to make it together. It’s a fairly standard part of life.

Nothing had stopped
Nothing had stopped
Nov 28, 2020
The first night I had without Tim, I was in a daze. I was foggy. I was exhausted. When I awoke the next morning after 9 hours of sleep, I showered, got dressed, with no idea what to wear...
The first night I had without Tim, I was in a daze. I was foggy. I was exhausted. When I awoke the next morning after 9 hours of sleep, I showered, got dressed, with no idea what to wear...

Pause, for now
Pause, for now
Sep 12, 2020
I need a few months to focus on the work that pays the bills.
I need a few months to focus on the work that pays the bills.

This is NOT about hiking
This is NOT about hiking
Sep 5, 2020
I was hiking Mayflower Gulch Grand Traverse trail. It was 60 degrees. The sky was blue with a few scattered, cotton ball clouds.
I was hiking Mayflower Gulch Grand Traverse trail. It was 60 degrees. The sky was blue with a few scattered, cotton ball clouds.

My Man
My Man
Aug 29, 2020
It's time you get to know the man in my ife. He is short strong, and agile. And he is covered with the softest, glossiest black hair.
It's time you get to know the man in my ife. He is short strong, and agile. And he is covered with the softest, glossiest black hair.

What will I do with them?
What will I do with them?
Aug 22, 2020
In preparing for Tim's celebration of life, one of the first things I did was create a slide show. I spent countless hours accessing photos on every device and storage place.
In preparing for Tim's celebration of life, one of the first things I did was create a slide show. I spent countless hours accessing photos on every device and storage place.

Words
Words
Aug 15, 2020
Writing helps me to gain a greater understanding of my own life.
Writing helps me to gain a greater understanding of my own life.

Scars and all
Scars and all
Aug 8, 2020
As I stood in meditation and learned of Kintsugi, I wept.
As I stood in meditation and learned of Kintsugi, I wept.

When you finally learn to love
When you finally learn to love
Aug 1, 2020
I made a note in my journal a few months ago about something I read about love.
I made a note in my journal a few months ago about something I read about love.

Keep coming back
Keep coming back
Jul 25, 2020
The day after Tim died, I went to a yoga class. And I felt nothing on my mat.
The day after Tim died, I went to a yoga class. And I felt nothing on my mat.
About the Author
Hi, I’'m Yve!
I am an end-of-life-doula, a grief educator, a business professional, a yoga teacher, a writer, a nature lover, and a widow. Phew!
In 2019 I was shaken by a life event that has given me a precious opportunity to see and accept my truth — I am exactly where I’m supposed to be — and I'm not alone! With my knowledge and experience, I aim to support others in their journeys.



Contact
I'd be honored to help you on your journey.
Prefer email? Reach me at info@loveyoumoredoula.com.





