My Heart is Riding Shotgun

When the door opens, don't rush to close it

Jul 31, 2026

It was completely unexpected. It was sudden. But after a few days in critical care, we were told directly, by a hepatologist, that Tim was at very high risk of dying within three months.

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About the Author

Hi, I’'m Yve!

I am an end-of-life-doula, a grief educator, a business professional, a yoga teacher, a writer, a nature lover, and a widow. Phew!

In 2019 I was shaken by a life event that has given me a precious opportunity to see and accept my truth — I am exactly where I’m supposed to be — and I'm not alone! With my knowledge and experience, I aim to support others in their journeys.

Yve smiling in hiking gear stepping over a metal stile in a green leafy outdoor setting.

Yve going nose to nose with her dog at a park on a sunny day.

A blog about grief, love and living.

When the door opens, don't rush to close it

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When nothing makes sense, rules don’t either